Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Baby, Baby, oh Baby!

Now I have been told that I do not spend enough time talking about our new little munchkin which will be making her appearance sometime in late April, early May, and so I wanted to post a quick update about her. Sadly we do not currently have any good digital copies of ultrasound pics but will be getting a 3D ultrasound next week which we will post.

One big reason that I haven't posted much is because I just don't have much. Now that I am on a Mac I can't scan pics from my old printer and so all of the ultrasound pics we have I can't put on the computer. Oh well.

From the looks of things everything is going smoothly. She is starting to tap dance on mama's bladder and kick her in the ribs but this is a good thing. She is healthy from what we can tell and is doing great. Oh and as you can see from the pic below, she is a she. Look for the "hamburger" or the three lines that make up the "girly parts".

More comings and goings at Casa de Carter... and "schimis"

Just a few fun pictures from around the house and the comings and goings of our life. At the end you'll see some pictures of "shimis"... also known as "swimming" in toddlerese.

We watch Dora on my computer... and have snuggle time.
The flash was deceiving, this is how it really looks... lights out.

Mom got her some bunny ears from Big Lots.



SHIMIS!!!





Valentines Day

Ahhh Valentines day... I will save my soap box speech about materialism and the consumer mentality only to say that yes, Valentines day was celebrated in the Carter household... at least by me.

I bought a gift bag of goodies for all of the women in my life, yes that includes Ruby. For Courtney I bought "The Tales of Beedle the Bard" and a whole bunch of her favorite candy. For Maddie there was more "caandy" (as she calls it... think South African accent), a Dora bouncy ball, a Dora backpack, a couple of sippy cups, bubbles, stuffed animals, and other misc goods. Maddie loves her new goodies and Courtney has loved the candy... just ask how quickly she ate the bag of almond M&Ms.

I also bought Courtney and her co-workers a pizza lunch... so yeah, who's the man?


Here are some pics.










Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Morro Bay...

A couple of weekends ago we decided to go to the coast so that Maddie could play in or near the ocean. We planned for a Sunday because there was supposed to be a break in the weather (as we have been having some rainy days lately). Unfortunately the weather man must have been on something because he got it totally wrong. It was overcast, windy, and cold... all around a yucky day... weather-wise.

We had a BLAST and so did Maddie. As you can tell from the pictures the Wildebaurs (minus "Aunt EEYA") came with us which was great when there was a crazy little toddler to keep an eye on... the more eyes the better. We went to the Morro Bay Aquarium and fed the rehabilitating sea lion and harbor seal, Maddie squealed the whole time. We also ate at a wonderful restaurant that had great food and EXCELLENT customer service. So much so that when Maddie was starting to go crazy the owner came over and asked if he could take her of a tour of the boardwalk. It was great, well worth a couple of extra bucks.

So after a day of fun we took a drive through wine country and saw some beautiful vineyards and headed home. Needless to say it was an awesome day trip. Enjoy the pictures!
















Saturday, February 7, 2009

Changes

Hey Gang, just a quick note.

Well... there has been a change to my previous post... which was somewhat unfortunate.

I had said that pending a background check, blah, blah, blah... I would start as soon as that went through which should be the second week of Feb giving me a nice vacation... yeah, not so much.

I did all my finger printing and physical and all that on Wed of last week, drug test Tuesday of last week. I was told that it would take about a week to process the finger prints... which would put me at Wed, a few days ago. So I called in on Monday... and they had already received everything.

So much for my week of vacation... I started work on Tuesday which gave me one stinking day off. Can you believe that? God is GOOD. Though I didn't get a vacation I will not be missing a pay check and will only lose one day's pay (which I more than make up for with my accrued vacation time that is being cashed out by the county)! So crazy how that all worked out.

Please pray that God will bless me in my new position as there is a ton of pressure with this job!

Monday, February 2, 2009

The job thing...

Before I talk about my job situation, be sure to check all the other updates (they go all the way back to Christmas 2008). You will have to click "older posts" at the bottom of the page to view the Christmas pictures. Just so ya don't miss anything!

Alright people, I don't know who reads this blog or where you stand in your faith or whether you have a faith or not... but when you here this story it is pretty hard to argue that it is not a "God thing".

As you all know I was given a 30 day notice at the end of December telling me that my job would be deleted on Jan 31st. Well, as I'm sure you know, this is not a good time to be out of work as jobs are getting cut left and right.

So I went into panic mode. I remember what it was like before I got the training officer job and, financially speaking, being jobless is just not viable. One option was going on unemployment... but I would only be eligible for about $130 a week. Not enough by far! So what the heck was I gonna do?

Well, I simply talked to God and told him that I trusted him to provide for me and my family and asked Him to open a door for me. I talked to my friends and family and asked for their prayers about the situation. With my mom I was a bit more specific... I told her that February 1 was kind of D-day for me. If I didn't have something lined up by that point we would possibly be in a bad financial situation. So my mom and I prayed about that February 1st date.

To give you some perspective about the job market in Tulare County... we have a 15% unemployment rate and of that 15%, 20% are in my age group with degrees. So needless to say I was worried. To add to my anxiety I worked right next to the unemployment office (the PC name for it is the Workforce Development building) and they had a job for grunt work at the Land-O-Lakes plant in Tulare... these were production jobs making like $13 an hour. Almost 2,500 people showed up to interview... the line was across the street. OH MY GOODNESS... that gave me a picture of the unemployment issues in my area (and many of them looked like they had degrees... not sure if they were just snazzy dressers or not but they looked the part). So, yeah, I was worried.

I did all that I could. I applied to all sorts of jobs... some I wanted, others I didn't but they would have put food on the table. In the mean time there were even lay offs at Courtney's work. Luckily Courtney was not affected but it shows that even the health care industry is not untouchable. Overall I think I applied for somewhere between 30-40 jobs in under three weeks. I heard back from two.

One was working for a non-profit (taking a 20% pay cut) working to get gang members into jobs in the bad areas of the county. Not a fun job and not one that I was looking forward to. The other was a Community Relations Director at a senior assisted living facility. I figured I didn't have much of a chance seeing as I didn't have a TON of sales or marketing experience.

Well, I sent my application for the Prestige job (the sales and marketing job) on January 7th. I got a phone call from the executive director of the facility, Helen, on Monday the 12th. We set up an interview for the 13th. I went and did a really good job. She told me she was impressed and that she would set up an interview with me with the corporate marketing director and that I was to call her on Monday the 19th. I called on Monday and was told that she would call me on Friday. "Oh great" I thought... she is going to give me the run around and has found somebody with better qualifications. I gave it 20% odds that she would call... but she did! She set up an interview for me on Monday the 26th with the corporate director, Carrie. I went to the interview and thought it went pretty well (though the breath mint I had before left me with cotton mouth and probably bad breath). Things were going well until my last question... "What is your timeline?" Helen responded that she would be out of the office a lot over the next few weeks and still needed to interview some people and so she was thinking by mid to late February. Ugh... that timeline wasn't going to work for me. Disappointed I left the interview feeling pretty crappy, even though I knew I had done well.

So I decided to go the route of substitute teacher... which was my backup. I wasn't too excited about that but, hey, its $100 a day which is better than nothing. So on Tuesday, the day after the interview, Cathy and I went to the office of education to get fingerprinted. My appointment was at 10:15 and Cathy's at 10:30. We paid our $66 and sat down to be scanned. Cathy got called up first and got half was through when the machine froze. It took them about 20 minutes to get it unfroze. During that time my phone rang... it was Helen!! She offered me the position! It was January 27th, four days before D-day and GOD had provided me with a job. A job that pays me basically the same as my training officer job with the potential of more with bonuses!

So I went back into the office of ed and asked if I could have my $66 back because I was just offered a job and they said yes and gave me back my money. Think about it... Though my appointment was before hers, Cathy got called up first. If I had been called up first or the machine hadn't froze I would have lost that money. God not only gave me a job but he also gave me my $$$ back! How awesome is that?!

So, pending a background check (got livescanned on 1/28), reference check (not worried about it), and drug test (REALLY not worried about it unless soda and french fries have been made illegal) the job it mine. Hopefully I'll start the second week of February, giving me a week vacation!

God is good!

To check out the company I will be working for go to their site:
http://www.prestigecare.com/index.php

Tattoos...

So, in case you didn't know already, I have a tattoo. It is a fish and a cross on my left arm. Courtney also has a tattoo of a trinity knot on her back. So we are an inked up family. Well, Maddie has realized that we have those tattoos and she now wants some of her own. So, as good (or bad) parents, we felt it only right to oblige her desire.

Oh, and on a side note, there is nothing so cute as hearing your child say your name as now Maddie knows us as both Mama and Dada but also "Corni" and "Assh".

This is arguably the most white trash my daughter has ever looked...

This would be a smiley face on her belly... all other markings are her work..

That would be a copy of my tattoo on her arm... that she smeared... bummer!

She's my little angel and so her got her wings.

Aww, the sailor tat with the pierced heart with the word mom on her arm... classic!

This was towards the end...
I had nothing to do with the mustache, that would be the work of my wife.




She was having a BLAST!! She was SOOOO upset when we had to stop and get in the bath.

Now, before you freak out and try to call CPS on us please know that they were washable markers and all the markings came off in the bath very quickly and she has no markings on her what-so-ever. It was all in good fun. Now it was probably bad that we encouraged her to write on herself (especially if she ever gets ahold of a sharpie) but the memories and these pictures make it worth it!!

Dora obsession...

This is a video to show you the obsession my daughter has with Dora the Explorer (and Go Deigo Go to a lesser level). Just watch the dancing...


Potty time!

That's right folks, it is time to start potty training!! Maddie couldn't be more thrilled as she has begun to alert us by saying things like "pee" and "poop"... though usually it is after the fact but there is effort there! In order to encourage her to potty train we bought her a Maddie sized potty. She already rocks out on the toilet complete with books and when she is done she even wipes. Of course she has never deposited anything into the toilet yet, other than dry wipes... again the effort is there. Mama helps by sitting on the big toilet to teach her.

The only problem is getting her diaper back on her when she is done. She wouldn't let us last time and instead climbed up on the couch to watch Dora and proceeded to pee all over the couch.

But once again... the effort is there and that is all we can ask!